A recent
editorial in the New York Times
Sunday Review1 revealed why certain groups have advanced in society
more than others. The article described three learned traits that when present
accelerate the potential for long-term success on various measures. The first
trait is a "a deep-seated belief in [one's] exceptionality." 1
(p. 1) The second trait is a strange contrast to the first and is the
conviction that what one does is never "good enough" (the article
calls this low self-esteem). While the second trait could be viewed as a drive
for perfectionism, the article is referring to a healthy striving for progress.
The third trait is the control of one's own behavior and more specifically
"impulse control."1 These individuals restrain their
negative behaviors.
The article also
identified the various cultural groups that have excelled -- Indian-Americans, Iranians, Lebanese, Chinese-Americans,
Mormons, Jews, and Nigerians.1 The article revealed that it was not
a gift of birth or wealth but rather a formation of the three traits in their
children. In other words, these traits are accessible and can be instilled by
all parents.
What was most
troubling about the article's message was that American society now holds only
the superiority belief.1 The
article suggests American society has become accepting (leading to entitlement)
and has waned on impulse control, whereby it is perfunctory to cut people off
in traffic, "lose it" when things don't go our way or have fun at the
expense of others. It is important to
understand the message of this Op-Ed piece in the context of leading others.
Leaders need a
significant degree of confidence, and a sense of superiority is a parallel
attitude; it is reasonable that these beliefs enable the accomplishment of
objectives in the complex environments typically faced. However, leaders must
also have a degree of humility to counterbalance the behaviors these ideas
might generate; know-it-all leaders rarely survive. Thus, one could say that
part of being superior is the recognition of fallibility; an odd combination
but needed.
With regards to
the not-good-enough belief, leaders must accept that in one's personal
development is always and forever a work in progress -- never finished. This is
needed regardless of the continuous messaging from their parents that they are
always doing well.1 How can a leader make this happen? A possible
answer is to resist the natural temptation to satisfice. Satisficing is
"the tendency to search for alternatives only until one is found that
meets some minimum standards." 2 (p. 284) When leaders allow
this they are accepting lower-quality outcomes.
The final trait
regards impulse control; leaders do not have the luxury of behaving as they
wish. Instead, a leader is always on stage and always being scrutinized by
those who are following. A leader who lashes out at any worker will reduce his
or her ability to lead that person and or others. Leaders need to exercise more
control than others in the workplace; they can earn the right to be more
relaxed once trust has been earned. Until that time, a leader needs to be
sensitive to what their behaviors and words cause. For example, the leader who berates a staff member in a meeting
may engender fear among the witnesses.
So far I have
described the importance of leaders becoming unconsciously competent in these
three traits (all are important), but what about the fact that workers may
enter the workplace with only a sense of superiority? What is a leader to do?
Many researchers believe that society is experiencing an increase in the trait
of narcissism.3 If true, this confirms a deep-seated problem in our society and its workers. Leaders do not have the means
to fix this issue, but they are compelled to respond.
The antidote may
rest in three mechanisms. The first is to create an organizational culture that
requires continuous improvement.
Culture is defined as "a system of shared meaning held by members
that distinguishes the organization from other organizations." 4 (p.
671) This means the leader will
need to instill a burning desire among organizational members that "we must
always improve." This shared understanding can override features of the
missing traits.
The second is to
incorporate into the cultural belief system that respect, integrity, honesty
and fairness are the only acceptable behaviors allowed. Such a culture recognizes
that impulses exist but are not always to be acted upon.
Finally, leaders
can act to increase motivational levels by attending to the characteristics of
a job.4 For example, if a leader communicates the importance or
purpose of the work, individuals will become more vested4 and more
willing to go beyond levels of "good enough." In addition, providing
ongoing feedback about how well one is doing can serve to illuminate gaps
between desired and actual results; with this knowledge, workers may improve
and strive to close known gaps. Most are willing to do this when it is known
they are falling short.
A final idea for
improving is to make identification of the traits a part of the selection
process and avoid hiring, to the extent possible, those who do not hold all
three characteristics.
Three traits when
combined are important success factors, according the New York Times article.1 The superiority trait is the
only trait that U.S. society currently holds, which suggests there are deficiencies
that need to be addressed by leaders in organizations. Ideas to work toward
this solution have been identified.
Feel free to make
comments.
Reference
1 Chua, A., & Rubenfeld, J. (2014, Jan.
26, 2014). What Drives Success? [Op-Ed]: New York Times.
2
Griffin, R.W. (2011). Management (10th ed.). Mason, OH:
South-Western Cengage Learning.
3 Twenge, J.M., & Campbell, W.K.
(2009). The Narcissism Epidemic. New York: Free Press.
4 Robbins, S., & Judge, T. (2013). Organizational
Behavior (15th ed.). Boston: Pearson.
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